Hi, I’m Bee.
Relationship coach helping you be yourself in relationships — so you feel met, secure, and deeply connected.
My story
Career success came easily to me. But in relationships, I felt stuck — often awkward, unsure, and like something in me was broken.
I kept repeating the same patterns, drawn to emotionally unavailable men and relationships that didn’t meet me.
I struggled with people-pleasing, taking on other people’s feelings, and losing myself in relationships — things I’ve had to work through myself.
And yet, I longed for something real. Something steady, honest, and meaningful.
I’ve been engaged twice, married once, divorced once, and spent years navigating dating, heartbreak, and starting again.
Eventually, I knew I couldn’t keep going in the same way. That’s what led me to this work.
As I changed how I communicated, set boundaries, and started trusting myself, the kind of relationships I was in changed too. I stopped being drawn to the same dynamics — and started attracting a partner who could actually meet me.
It didn’t just change my love life. I became clearer, more direct, and more grounded in myself — at work, with friends, and in every part of my life.
Today, I’m in a relationship that feels grounded, supportive, and real.
I’ve rebuilt trust in myself and learned how to relate differently — and that’s what I now support other women to do.
In fact, here are some ways I can help you:
Stop being drawn to emotionally unavailable partners — and start choosing people who can actually meet you
Stop overthinking every message, every interaction, and what it all means — so you know where you stand
Get clear on what you want and need in a relationship — and actually say it
Set boundaries without guilt — and stop overgiving, people-pleasing, or carrying what isn’t yours
Feel secure and steady in relationships — so you can be yourself and experience something real, mutual, and deeply connected
Trust yourself in relationships — so you stop second-guessing your decisions or ignoring what you already know
Loving who you are is what allows you to be met in the way you’ve been wanting.
How I work
This isn’t just about understanding your relationship patterns — it’s about changing how you experience yourself in relationships.
In our 1:1 work, we look at what’s actually shaping how you relate:
the patterns you keep repeating
the beliefs behind your choices
the past experiences that still influence you
But we don’t stop at insight.
You’ll learn how to stay connected to yourself in the moments that matter — so you’re not overthinking, people-pleasing, overgiving, or avoiding boundaries.
I bring in practical and embodied tools to help you feel more grounded, more steady, and more able to trust yourself — so you can communicate more clearly and have your needs met in relationships.
Because when that shifts, everything else starts to feel different.
At the heart of it, this work is about creating relationships that feel alive, honest, and deeply meaningful.
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“Coaching with Brunhilde has helped me recognise my own worth, and to better love and take care of myself. I feel more empowered in having difficult conversations, and making my voice heard, both at work and in my personal life.”
— Wendy S,
