Where you reconnect with yourself, and start being met in your relationships.
stuck in the same relationship patterns, no matter who you’re with
drawn to emotionally unavailable partners who can’t fully meet you
like you’re overthinking everything in relationships (texts, timing, what things mean)
unsure of what you actually want or need in love
drained from overgiving or people-pleasing, trying to keep everyone happy
guilty or anxious when you try to set boundaries
like you’re holding things in or avoiding difficult conversations
like you lose yourself in relationships or abandon your own needs
insecure, anxious, or not fully chosen in love
like you can’t fully trust yourself or your decisions in relationships
Are you tired of feeling…
Are you ready to…
feel met, understood, and valued — without people-pleasing
express yourself openly and set boundaries without guilt
know where you stand without overthinking or second-guessing
experience consistency, honesty, and real connection
feel secure and steady, not anxious or unsure
have your needs recognised and responded to
be yourself without losing connection
feel relaxed and at ease in your relationships
communicate clearly, without overexplaining or holding back
experience love that feels real, mutual, and deeply meaningful
What’s included in 1:1 coaching
A personalised coaching experience tailored to you — your background, your patterns, and what you want from your relationships — so the work is relevant and actually creates change.
Weekly 1:1 coaching sessions, with ongoing support between sessions via email or message when you need it.
A space to understand and shift the patterns, beliefs, and habits that keep showing up in your relationships.
In our sessions, we work through what’s actually happening for you — so you can communicate more clearly, set boundaries without guilt, and stop overthinking, people-pleasing, overgiving, or second-guessing yourself.
Support to trust your own decisions, express your needs, and feel more steady in how you relate to others.
Additional tools, practices, and worksheets to support you between sessions — so you can integrate the work into your day-to-day life.
If you have any questions, you can book a free discovery call.
Try a session for free and see if it’s right for you.
This work is for you if:
You’re ready to invest in yourself and your relationships
You’re tired of relationships that are emotionally draining and confusing
You want confidence to be yourself in relationships
You’re ready for real, lasting change in how you show up in relationships
You want relationships that feel right for you — where you feel fully met
This may not be the right fit if:
You’re looking for quick fixes, dating advice, or surface-level mindset hacks
You believe it’s impossible for you to change, or that your patterns won’t shift
You’re not in a place to commit the time, energy, and resources that 1 to 1 coaching requires right now
You’re hoping things will change without you showing up differently
“Brunhilde always proved supportive, knowledgeable, able to hold a very loving and judgement-free space where I felt free to be seen in all my messiness and vulnerability. I would highly recommend her to anyone looking for a warm coach who is laser focused on empowering you.”
— Roberta M,
